Most women, if they train on the ground at all, will not actually want to learn to wrestle. Fortunately, it is not necessary for them to wrestle. What IS necessary is for them to know what it is like to be held down, to know what their options are, and to keep a cool head.
The emotional aspect is exactly what A Personal Defense seeks to train. By working with a coach in a controlled environment, this very uncomfortable scenario becomes familiar and controllable. Then escape becomes a real possibility
I hope all women take the time to at least experience some grappling training. Don't wait until it's for real.